What does the girlfriend experience mean to me?

Girlfriend Experience, or GFE, can mean something slightly different depending on who you ask. For me, it is actually quite simple. I want our time together to feel like a real date.

When I know I am meeting someone, I prepare for it the same way I would for any date I am looking forward to. I think about what I am going to wear, do my hair and make up, choose my perfume and wonder a little about the person I am about to meet.

I don’t want to arrive with the energy of someone turning up for an appointment. From the moment we meet, I want to be present, curious about you and ready to see where our chemistry takes us.

That could start with a drink at the bar, dinner somewhere beautiful or a walk through Amsterdam. It could turn into room service at midnight, wine in bed or waking up together the next morning and deciding that breakfast can definitely wait a little longer.

Basically, the things you might do with a girlfriend.

Just with considerably less discussion about the dishwasher.

For me, GFE as a high class escort is about warmth, affection and genuine interest, but please don’t mistake that for innocent. I like flirting. I like being desired, and I like showing someone when the attraction goes both ways. That moment when eye contact lasts slightly too long, sitting a little closer than necessary, the first touch, the first kiss and knowing that neither of us is in much of a hurry to behave.

Sometimes that chemistry is there the moment you open the door. Sometimes it sneaks up on us somewhere between dinner and the second glass of wine. And sometimes the plans for the evening suddenly become considerably less important.

I like that.

I am naturally very open minded, and that is definitely part of the girlfriend experience with me. I like being able to talk openly about attraction, desires and the things we might be curious to explore together. I can be sweet and affectionate, but I definitely have a naughty and adventurous side too. When there is trust and chemistry, I love having the freedom to discover where that side of us might take us, without embarrassment or judgement.

I don’t need a script beforehand. In fact, I would much rather not have one. I find it far more exciting when we can read each other, respect each other’s boundaries and let attraction and curiosity take over naturally.

A little unpredictability can be very sexy.

And GFE certainly doesn’t mean I suddenly become some perfectly behaved fantasy girlfriend. You are still getting me. My humour, my affection, my curiosity, my opinions and probably an inappropriate joke at exactly the wrong moment.

Maybe we have dinner and disappear into a beautiful hotel afterwards. Maybe we spend an afternoon exploring Amsterdam. Maybe one evening becomes an overnight, a weekend together or eventually an adventure somewhere else in the world.

As a high class escort, I love that a girlfriend experience can take so many different forms. The setting can change completely. What matters is that while we are together, we can really be together. We can flirt, laugh, kiss, be affectionate, explore the attraction between us and forget about everything outside our little bubble for a while.

Because of course, we both have lives outside the time we spend together. Careers, families, relationships and responsibilities don’t suddenly disappear. When our date ends, we return to our own worlds, and that doesn’t make what happened between us any less genuine.

Discretion is naturally part of that for me. What you tell me, what we experience together and the private details of your life stay between us. I think that trust actually gives us more freedom to relax, be open minded and enjoy each other without worrying about the world outside.

Perhaps that is what the girlfriend experience with a high class escort means most to me. For the time we choose to spend together, we can give in to the chemistry, enjoy each other’s company and create our own little world.

And afterwards, real life continues.

What happened in our little world stays there.